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Every day thousands of people log on to online dating sites looking for romance or long-term
commitment and love. In fact, online dating is becoming more popular as increasing numbers
of men and women of all age groups seek an online connection. Use the following tips as a
guide to online dating success.
1. BE HONEST. When placing an ad or replying to an ad make sure you tell the truth about yourself.
2. MAKE YOUR AD STAND OUT. Write an eye-catching headline. And add some humour if you can.
(Beware: Don't be smutty as this will turn people off.) Check out the competition. See what
attracts you to other ads then use a similar style with your own. Be original Even if you
like moonlit walks along the beach and candlelit dinners, restrain yourself from writing about
it because you will sound just like everybody else.
3. USE A PICTURE. It's true that pictures are worth a thousand words. If you are placing an
online dating ad, make sure you include a good quality photo. Also, make sure the photo reflects
what you really look like otherwise a first meeting could end in disaster.
4. BE SPECIFIC. You know your self really well. Make a list of your positive points and your
interests then tell them about it in your online dating ad. Be realistic!
5. CONSIDER WHAT YOU WANT. Find out about your target market - what they like and don't like
to read in ads then write yours accordingly. For example: If you are a man who wants a long-term
commitment, don't list the physical assets you want in a woman, as the women who want long-term
commitments will not respond to this. If you are a woman who wants a man who loves techno
music, don't say you are a Mariah Carey fan.
6. BE POSITIVE. Nobody wants a sad sack.
7. COME BACK OFTEN. If you are serious about finding someone visit us often. We add new
services all the time. Other members are more likely to write to someone who is active
on the site.
8. ANSWER MESSAGES LIKE A CONVERSATION. If you are answering a message or sending another
online dating ad, make sure you are not too formal. Structure your messages like a conversation.
Be positive and friendly and don't say anything that could be misconstrued.
9. REMAIN ANONYMOUS. Do not give out your real email address, last name, phone number, address
or workplace details.
10. CONSIDER SAFETY WHEN MEETING SOMEONE IN PERSON. Meet in a public place and bring friends.
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